Oh, Those Poor Unfortunate Souls

Oh, Those Poor Unfortunate Souls

If you want to attract a healthy relationship where you partner loves you and tells you how beautiful you are, you should first show that love to yourself, because who would want to be with someone who doesn't even likes her/his self? The first step to find a good partner is to fill yourself with love! Oftentimes during a relationship people more on the flaws and weaknesses of their spouse, and by the law of attraction the more you think of their flaws, more flaws you are going to have. This said, in a relationship that has two people thinking on the strengths of the other, the relationship has more strengths than a relationship where both individuals think only of the flaws of the other. 

"Your job is you. Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody"

This quote made me think about what many people say, " I am tired of people hurting me."  Because through the law of attraction, by saying this you are asking for more people that will hurt you. I have also used this sentence, without knowledge of the law. This made me think of all the times I've said it, and the effects of using it, many people have hurt me, and it is because I used that sentence as if it were harmless. 

"Treat yourself with love and respect , and you will attract people who show you love and respect." 

Many people I know, like my brother are always saying awful things about their selves. The other day after reading this chapter, I heard my brother say "Soy un idiota!" (I am an idiot) and by myself I started thinking that because he doesn't love himself there are probably many people that make him feel that way. I have always know that there were some kids in my brothers grade that make everyone feel bad, but for some reason this kids bother my brother the most, and then it hit me, my brother is becoming a negative person magnet! 

When you don't like many things about yourself, you are essentially blocking all the good things that can come to you, therefore more people that will make you feel bad about yourself will get to your life. Why do you think Taylor Swift has never had a relationship that lasts more than a song? Well, it is probably because she only sings about the bad things that happen to her, the bad relationships, the man that ruined her life! If she sang songs about how much she loves herself and the qualities that make her feel special, people who make her feel that way would have to get in her life. If you focus more in the good things of yourself, the law of attraction will show you the most great things of yourself.  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VyFVG4VfPmg - Poor Unfortunate Souls, The Little Mermaid